She says I haven't been there for her, which hind sight I can see some things but she didn't really show it much then. When we were married a yr we started fighting about each other doing too much around house and she wanted to go to counseling to work on communication but I refused. She went to a personal counselor but never asked me to go again and when I asked what she was going for she said "just dealing w things" . It was shortly after our daughter was born and she had mentioned post pardum depression. So I assumed it was all for that and about her mother (she hasn't talked to her in years)
I was selfish with purchases but we bought a bigger house when we were trying for second baby but I would have rather stayed in the one we had.....but we eventually agreed on one .
I have sold my stuff and paid off other bills, changed my schedule so I could take my daughter to daycare. I have been working night shift for almost a year and my wife said she feels like a single parent because I'm either not home or sleeping. I don't get much sleep anymore because I want to be here.
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
