Detaching is key, and then seeing the warning signs when your WAW comes in and of your life, and your heart is drawn to her.

It's hard. We are here on this forum because we love our WAW's (and husbands). We believe that marriage is hard, but worth it. We want it to work. But that connection can sabotage us, and stop any chance of rebuilding.

It is a cruel joke of the heart.

Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015