The housework issue . She said that she would ask for help and I wouldn't I would be to tired . This is an issue due to me working shift work and working nights and getting up and not really helping out for the week when I did work nights .
What I failed to realise was that my W was finding it hard to keep on top of the house work with her new job and she could have done with my help .
Currently I have become a domestic goddess and even during the 2 weeks W came home she did comment on how she had never seen the house stay so tidy .
One thing that did come into my mind was that as a child myself and being the eldest of 5 I used to look after my brothers and sisters and do a lot of housework and cooking for them . This was because my mum and dad were very often down the pub.
The housework and looking after the kids is something I believe my WAW thought I would be a complete disaster at . She did say to my daughter just before she left the first time " give it a few weeks and dad will be begging me to come home"
I can understand that we me and the kids have had to become a good little team due to the circumstances . And we kept it going for the two weeks w was at home and nearly 2 weeks after she left again we are still keeping well on top of everything.
I just wish the W had told me how she felt about me being a lazy ba&@�)rd .
Last edited by South74; 09/25/1410:00 PM.
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
