My Wife Filed Today

[FunDad]

So I guess some good news. It appears as I expected it would financially. She's probably only going to get a couple hundred more per month from me than she currently is. This is because I pay ALL of our debt, her insurance(s), and did not force her to leave the home. I may have to take the debt to keep the house however. That's worth it to me so I think I'm good. If she fights it, we can just recommend to the judge that she move her and kids back in to the marital home and I go somewhere else. Also, my son living with me has a mental disorder that does not bode well for him moving, again. So, I may get to relive my childhood in the bachelor pad and work extra odd jobs to pay down the debt.

My counselor does not think this is the end for us. He describes it as she's on the highway headed south, and won't exit and turn around until this door has been closed (The D). Once she does exit, there will have to be some conditions to start the turn around, of which this board is all about. I really believe that she will eventually turn around, but, it's just so painful waiting.

If you have not seen the post today labeled "I'm going to be ok" it's worth the read. I think I'm going to be ok too, just anxious waiting to be sure.

FD