I've been kicking something back and forth this week and want to know if I just need whacked over the head or if there is some merit to this so I wanted to ask others thoughts.

A couple months back there was an argument, over scheduling, where W randomly threw out "the only thing left to our M is paperwork to be done". At another time she made a comment to some friends that we needed to treat each other as if we had a fresh relationship and consider each other as new. One of her complaints to our M was that I didn't pursue her and it keeps making me think that given the space and friendly regard we have these days that it wouldn't be a bad idea to just ask her if she wanted to go out just the two of us.

I know that is pursuing and since its likely a bad idea...I'd like someone to confirm that so I can quit thinking about it. Sometimes I get stupid ideas stuck in my head and would like confirmation. Anyone?


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10