H got back in town sooner than expected. He confessed to me that he was lonely. I had gone to see him since he had been flirting a lot with me through text. He also wanted to see the baby. Then later, we had a nice moment and it was as though my 'real husband' was back for some time. He was really sensitive and treated me and hugged me the way he always used to. He has not said anything else. we talked about the problem we had and how he cant trust me. but it isnt resolved yet. He is still talking to OW who has left the country and will maybe come back next year. I dont really know where we stand.It is a progress from where we were but I dont know what to do. I know i have to do 180s still but do i just follow his lead and still detach or do i slowly spend time with him? i am so confused. He wanted the baby and I to spend the weekend with him. It seems like he misses being family since he is all on his own for the most part. I wonder if this is just a temporary thing. Does anyone have any experience with such situations?


Me:27 H:26
T:3 M:1.5
D 6 months
D bomb: 6/21/14
I Moved out 9/7/14