Wow, loved the end of the world story! One thing, again, in forgiveness, it took both the H and W to say, "I am sorry, and I forgive you". I'm still hung up on the forgiveness without the other person either being remorseful (or even seeing the "wrong" in their actions) or excepting the apology and showing forgiveness in return. I know when my w started spewing, I did say "I'm so very sorry for anything I have done over the years to hurt you. I really didn't know or try and hurt you." and was totally rejected by her. All I got was "You should have known" even things that she totally misread on my part. How do you get past that. I know I'm missing something really important here. I'm just not sure what that is....
