Roller Coaster goes up as fast as it goes down. Talked last night out via text and we're on an even keel, now.
He asked again when my mom was going to be done with the rooms and I told him her predicament. I told him he could call her if he wanted to, but I wasn't comfortable pushing her considering. He took that well, but then said we should part out our things so the process is easier when she's done.
Boo. Fine.
We talked for a few minutes about some items, including how I need to get my old CB radio and computer monitor from him (one's the basement, the other's in his car); they're decidedly mine but he's been using them for a long time, now.
Finally I told him if he wanted to trade a motorcycle battery and oil change for both items, I'd be cool with that. We'll do the oil change together so he can teach me how. He amicably agreed. And, hey, it's an opportunity to spend time with him, too, no? :P
A while after all that, he sent me a text letting me know his job switched him to another office, which he's been waiting on for a while. The location he's in now makes him miserable and he feels like the people that work there talk down to him and treat him like an idiot. This is information I'd expect him to tell me at home, in passing as a "by the way", not purposefully texting me to share good news, so I was kind of surprised. I congratulated him and I told him I hope he's 200% more happy with the new place and it makes his life a little easier.
Working on keeping the PMA up with him, but inside my tummy is clenching and I don't want to move or even talk about it. Yuck.
BF:40 M:33 SD: 12 T: 8, never married, no kids together BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try". PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".
