"She is asking for more from me - for me to open up, so your suggestion really does help with that."
Tell her that if she keeps shutting you down by saying "you will never get over this" she is showing you that you can't be honest and open with her which she keeps asking you to be.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.