One thing I need to keep reminding myself... that I need to be vigilant about, is that whatever negative thoughts or emotions I'm having at any given time, they will pass. Maybe not right away, but eventually, and I must not act on them.


H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14