Like it says in my signature block (from Marianne Williamson),
"Forgiveness is Our way out of hell."
It helped ME. For a long time I never even told h, so I can only say how it affected me, not him.
In a way, he wasn't really relevant to the choice I made b/c like I said, it was for MY benefit more than anything else.
It also happened to help my kids, a lot.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
