Walk away partner after 22 years . First post

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Think I have written the problems before but they are/were

Relationship issues with my son . Claims I never loved him
Being lazy with housework .
Not doing anything to the house for years and if I did try it would take forever and usually never got finished.
Not spending any time together , we never went out as a couple for meals out cinema just the 2 of us .everything we did was with the kids .
If she wanted something I would just buy it for her .
Never felt part of the family . This is due to no joint account and I paid for everything even though she worked .

Think that's about it for negative but then there were positives that she would say that would really puzzle me .