MI have done every single one of these wrong, seems like. No, I haven't sought legal counsel. I don't feel it's time. I think she is just talking from hurt.
Everyone does them wrong at first. It's good that you've found this forum early on in your situation. You can get a free initial consultation just to be prepared. It doesn't have to lead to divorce.
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