Forgiveness of my H has released me from a lot of pain, it also helped me to work on forgiving others.

I really believe it was affecting me more then it was affecting them. I'm a much happier person now, working on being better every day.

Forgive does not mean forget, and I had to dig deep to forgive, but it was sooo worth it. I wanted H to come to me and beg for my forgiviness, may not ever happen.

I even forgave myself for things I did wrong in my M, and things I did wrong to others in the past.

I feel so much better.

Truly forgive if you can find it in your heart to do so.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW