I am not an angry person. have given the choice to drop the A and work on our marriage or see if she wants to make it work with OM.
Seriously? You have given her that choice??? Just who is the one who is desperate for approval and acceptance here?
Maybe I read that wrong, but it looks like you're willing to just stand by like a puppy dog while your wife decides if she wants you or her affair partner. Please clarify.
