Wife Still in MLC but has now left #4

[Lifes Twists]

I don't disagree with the use of 2x4s or 4x8s. I think we all need them from time to time. I know I do. I also agree that matt does come across as if he is judge and jury. I think it will eventually get through to him. We all have to either process things and move on and grow or give up and go away. My concern is when the choice of words comes across as you are to stupid to listen and therefor I am going to punish you by not trying to help you anymore. Isn't that what our MLCers are doing and are we not trying to not sink to that level?

Actions speak more than words. Here words can be actions. I had dealings with the president of a union at a place I worked. She had filed a grievance that she was due a grade increase. She felt she was due this because of the number of years she had been there. She was not capable, but she should get it because of years only. My caution is when you say you are a vet or an expert you are just waving your own flag. If you wave your own flag, are you really what you say you are? Why do you need to wave your flag? Again your word actions will speak more that your words.