Bringing the focus back to myself, and taking a look at my 180s and GAL. Some of the issues were explicitly stated over the past several months, others I've inferred from hints, or just identified as something I'd like to work on. Here were my original 180's:

Not passionate or excited about things, stagnated
180: GAL, dance classes, Krav Maga, volunteering
Results:
- Dance has been awesome, it has been great to meet new people, and I've loved the confidence boost that has come with it. Have another class tonight.
- Krav classes have been fun too, have never done anything like it. It's really intense, and I can see myself getting really good at it if I put in the time.
- I've volunteered at couple of events and it felt really good. I used to do stuff like that all the time with the scouts and I didn't realize how much I missed it. Will continue to look for opportunities. Also gave blood this week, which is something I've never done before, and will make a regular part of my life.

Out of shape
180: Running/working out every day and eating better
Results:
- Have to confess I've slipped here a little bit, haven't run at all this week, though I did work out a couple of times and played hockey. Need to re-focus on this and continue to develop good habits.

Stagnated in career
180: Going back for my MBA this fall
Results:
- Starts end of October, but have started the pre-work and ordered materials. Going to be a heck of a lot of work, but can't wait to meet my group and get started.


A couple of new ones to start this week:

Didn't do enough of the cooking
180: Will make at least 3 meals a week (and not leave dishes) I do enjoy cooking, especially finding new recipes, but I feel like she has always done more of it, somewhere between 60 and 70%. Figure I better start doing more of it anyway since I'll likely be doing 100%

House gets too messy/cluttered
180: Will leave no clutter behind and help keep things neat. We both contribute to the clutter, but both really appreciate when the house is clean. I've always been a little messy (sometimes a lot, my college dorm room was a disaster), so this would be a pretty big change.


Me:33 W:32
T 12yrs M 3yrs
House, No kids
6/16/14 BD 1+yr PA disclosed
9/1/14 Requested divorce, in house S