Take "her" list, and now compare it to "yours" (the present)...
What's different? Why? How did that come to pass?
What is the same? Why? How did that survive?
Now merge them...put anything that is on "her" list on "your" list that is not already there.
You just expanded things you like about yourself... (hmm, nice!)
Because "she" is still, always has been, inside you. She has maybe been pushed away from your attention by life's events, trials, experiences... but she is still there. Her voice maybe not loud enough to be heard by all the other stuff...but she is there.
She wants your attention, to be heard again, to be part of your life again...
Spend some time with her, and your new+old merged list, I think you will see something really cool...
My bit is done here for now.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
