I'm beginning to realize that you AND the more critical forum posters are BOTH right.
I have to improve myself, regardless. And I need to know that, way deep down, before real change occurs.
So the COMBINATION of encouragement and humbling questions is keeping me on track. Otherwise, it gets real easy to either blame the spouse or blame myself. In reality, no blame is necessary. Get better today. Be better tomorrow.
We have an active Shakespeare in the Park here in North Dallas. I'm going to see Antony and Cleopatra next week. And you think we DB'ers are tragic, try this play on for size.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20