My H is at home, never left. Very hard to be his roommate, be nice with no expectations back, to be in love, but not see any love coming back. My H works 2nd shift so that makes it a lil easier for me, we only have his day off (after I get home from work) or a couple hours on the weekends before H goes into work. I know this makes it ALOT easier for me, we don't have many hours home together and hardly none alone without our son there.
When we are home together for a period of time I try to stay very distant, stay busy in the house and or find a reason to leave the house when I feel like I might explode.
All that to say, try to stay busy physically or mentally when home together. Make plans with your friends and have your H watch your son.
I listen to music or read books or take walks if H is home and I feel like I need to do something.
Try different things to figure out what will work best for you.
When I feel the love about to pour out (LMAO) I will stop and think about all the drama and that usually helps to get me back centered.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
