So last night I went over and we talked about what I would "take" from the house. It was amicable...she is very matter of fact when we speak and doesn't show much emotion. I held my tears in until after I left and drove away.
This will be a process as there are so many photos and things like that. We discussed getting together several times over the next month to complete it.
When I left last night, I had a few items with me...a couple of loose pics that she had run across and a couple of gift items she had given me a few years ago that she ran across. Just those small items were heartbreaking. Another sign this is really happening and the marriage is over.
