My Wife Filed Today

[FunDad]

I meet again with my Attorney this morning. I have delivered to her all of our financial info. If I sell the house, I could wipe out all our debt and start back at zero. I'd have to fix up the house alot to sell it, but it may be easier to just do that and start over. Otherwise, I carry the debt load. I can afford child support and alimony, but not that AND all the debt. My hope is that I can keep the house however so the kids can have a place to visit, but I don't know if the memories here will be a good thing or bad thing yet for everyone. I do like the idea of having the house for in case that my W decides to reconcile. It's still here.

I've not missed any payments during this whole thing, so I still have a "good" credit score.

My wife is still steadfast about the D. I have been helping her with little things here and there, and she won't hesitate to ask for "favors", mainly dealing with the children. No letters or begging from me at all. I did notice, that she has a new FB friend that she had an online EA with several years ago. He's a creep, and it makes me angry to see this. She had promised to break off all contact with him. I guess that deal is off too.

I'm just wanting this nightmare to end.

Wish me luck.

FD