Hi Ahoy, Thanks for the clarification on the angry/vindictive vs cheap and selfish situation. I just don't get why he would want to take you off his insurance now. But I completely understand what you are saying about your relationship dynamics. I too "took care" of my H and he took me for granted and now is acting like he is very happy to do his own laundry. Then why the F didn't you do it ONCE while we were together? I don't get it. But I think I also did take for granted that he would always be there, and I became complacent and a bit boring in the relationship because of that. I own my part in that.
Glad to hear that you are doing well healthwise and also that you are GALing to the max. Sounds like you are having fun!
We all have these up and down moments. When you are in the down one just remember that it too will pass. Not easy to do but at least the down is not forever.
