To forgive

[Lifes Twists]

I guess for me, being an engineer, is how to define forgiveness.I work in a world of cause and effect, black and white, no room for it kinda works.

I have moved past the anger stage. I no longer let what she does interfere with raising my daughters unless it directly does. I have accepted that what she does is what she feels she needs to do no matter how destructive it is. I have accepted that I can only control one person and that is myself. I try as much as I can to not let her actions control my day to day life. Is that forgiveness?

WHAT IS FORGIVENESS?