not sure if the forum is up and running properly yet but here are a few things i posted but dissapeared.
one was about Fate met a guy in the pawn shop the other day who was in similar situation to myself , his wife had left him 3 weeks ago after 22 years he said it was out of the blue no warning no signs just bam she left. so he was selling his wedding ring as the final part of his chapter.
but its what he said about there being a higher being and all things are supposed to happen for good that stuck in my head. another was about 180s one of which is trying to stop bitting my finger nails which is so hard with all that is going on .
hope this post doesnt vanish again
What are your other 180s? Have you read any of the books yet? Not biting your nails is not exactly a big marital 180, though I know it's a hard habit to break. But I'd bet your wife would not say it was a reason for her wanting out...which leads to my question.
Did you see yourself as really working on your marriage DURING it?
I'm getting a strong feeling from reading your words here, that you take a lot of short cuts...and I am afraid that it shows.
What do you think?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
