Doesn't give someone a free pass, excuse someone's actions or behaviors, or make all forgotten..
This above is what my h expects my forgiveness should look like. I find for me it's not as instant and ready to serve as his macdonlds version. It's a process, it takes time to dim and the hurt to subside.
I never had the chance for the hurt to subside as h kept adding to the pile before each event was put in the past.
H justified the things he did as he didn't realise they would hurt or be offensive, but know if I did them to him he wouldn't stand for it. Yes I know a major double standard.
I committed minor misdemeanours in the r, while he committed ones that insulted caused emotional Hurt and would be considered by most in society as betrayal.
Ie I left crumbs in the house and wasn't up to his neatness standard He had an a!
Really not in the same neighbourhood, but to h crumbs are huge! Hence we had/have major conflict.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
