About to return from trip. W texted to offer picking me up from airport. I accepte with a simple thanks, immediately followed by a text that her current WAW roommate has stuck her with a repair bill. And she hates everyone and feels like she has no friends. All I could do is validate and try to understand but what can I do? She left and this is her $h@t.
I have detached. I have bettered myself. I have learned so much over the last 90 days. I am ready to not be walked on. I am willing to hear what (if any) changes she has made and what she wants. I will be in total listening mode in the next few days. I don't think she realizes this is a serious moment of truth in our lives, just as I didn't before she dropped the bomb on me.
I am ready. Either way. And it feels great.
M:35 WW:32 Dated 8 years M: 2 BD 6/12/14 S: 7/29/14 No kids Reconcile: 9/25/14 Moved back: 10/7/14