Hey GB, I have a question on this subject. What about if the person is actively still doing the things (or new ones) that are causing so much hurt and pain to you and your loved ones? It's one thing to "forgive" someone for doing something in the past (even if the recent past) but does that forgiveness apply to each new way they are causing difficulties? How do you stay in the forgiveness mode when each new day seems to bring some new way they are causing you problems?