Mleigh, I think if you keep the focus on you, you'll get so involved in developing your own life that you will too busy to dwell on what he's doing/not doing. And you just might start enjoying yourself - without him. 'Let go of what was and take hold of what is'. This is our new reality and we have to keep trying to make the best of it. You can do it. I thought I couldn't, but I am doing it. If I can, you can too!😊
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
