I know its hard not to think about him with the ow. But I promise you its not how you think.
How can it be with someone who is broken and in crisis? Most ow's are broken as well. The MLCer looks for people they can fix. They think that will fix what is wrong inside of them.
So, how can two broken people have anything of substance? It is a house of cards that will fall. It cannot sustain when its foundation is the breaking up of a family.
What can you do to stop your thoughts from going there? A rubberband on your wrist? Think STOP! Go do something? Whatever it takes, sweetie. One moment at a time.
