3kids, hang in there. I don't blame you one bit for having those thoughts, but don't dwell on them too much! Who knows why she is delaying. Maybe she is having problems with OM, maybe she is scared of that (seeming) finality of the next step, maybe she's just lazy. Who knows?? You won't figure it out and will drive yourself crazy trying. So stick with PM's post above. How are your kids doing?
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
