Hey MrBond! Well, I've been trying to back off so I have only initiated contact with H maybe a couple of times in the last couple of months and it was for logistical type things. He had been contacting me, though, with cute videos and emails of things he knew I would like or he would tell me things that were going on in his life. That all stopped and now he rarely contacts me since OW got pissed off about three weeks ago, and when he does, its only about logistical type things.
My changes have been that I am much more social and active, something I wasn't when H and I were together. I've much happier and upbeat when I am in contact with H (used to say I was too negative). I've even changed my hair and gone out and bought new clothes (gonna go broke if I keep that up), not to mention I've lost 25 lbs.
New things I was gonna try are to be a little more mysterious and not be so forthcoming with what I'm doing and who I'm with (basically not posting everything I'm doing on Facebook) and just generally not be so forthcoming with my thoughts and plans if/when I do see him. I've even moved furniture around and changed a few other things around the house. I'll try anything!
