WH, I'm glad the date went well and you had some fun. What movie are you seeing this evening?
As for your son's money, I hope he's smart enough to leave it at your house, whereby you can open an account for him. At least you will know the funds are safe and sound, if he wants to do this. Then again, your son may opt to keep the money and spend it on himself or a girl friend. BTW, I wouldn't trust J as far as I can throw him, especially when it comes to money.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
