Wifes severe depression, MLC, and suicide attempt

[Lifes Twists]

What gets me right now is how wife does things that she she let me know about but doesn't. Today I got a call from youngest daughter's counselor. She asks me whats up, what are we concerned about. I am like what? Huh? She says your wife has left several messages that she is concerned about daughter. I told her that I am not sure what wife is concerned about since she does not tell me anything. She then suggested we all get together. So I sent email to wife about it. I also asked that she try and let me know in future so that I will know and I will do the same. How do you get through to them when it comes to the kids? I feel like waving my arms over my head, jumping up and down, and shouting, "hey, Over Here, You know, The other person who made these kids possible." It is amazing how they can act as if you never existed.