She wants to be family and friends and a divorce.

[joli83]

Thanks rppfl.
I know my marriage as it was is over and thats actually a good thing I think. Starting over with a new and improved life as you say is definitely my long term goal. I dont want what I had, that led to where we are now.

I'm all for GAL and have been looking into a few new things to do just for me. Money is tight but somethings dont cost much or anything. Its mostly a time thing though as I am now primary parent for 3 kids.

Im trying to figure out if my 180 is something I should continue with addressing the things she said led to the divorce request or if more distance and more of the 37 rules, which seem more like what got me here.