Just backtracking a little. So you and your W are "poly" is that correct? Does your BF's W know about all of this?

There have been a number of people in your situation that have been on these boards. So don't think you're alone.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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