Thanks everyone! I think I may see the smallest glimmer of hope. While he's still behaving the same overall...on Sunday when he dropped the kids off, I told him that I have an interview this week. He asked me where & then talked to me for a minute about the restaurant I'm interviewing at! That may seem tiny, but that is literally the first question that he has asked about me since this whole fiasco began...so I think it's huge! Then today as we were discussing finances, he made sure that I still had money to last me until payday...is that a bit of concern for my wellbeing I see peeking through the clouds?! I think it just might be...so here's to itty bitty tiny baby steps!!!


Me: 30
Him: 30
Daughter: 5
Son: 3
Daughter: 1
Started dating: 2008
Married: 2010
He moved out: late 7/14

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