I guess I am currently looking at the relationship, she takes, I give .. was always like that, I lost me along the way, lost being " a man" so to speak.She had to be in control of everything and honestly it was not worth the fight to me after awhile.
How do you think that came about?
In most R's, the partners trade off being givers/takers at various times, trading off is "normal" ... so how did this imbalance come about?
How did you lose you? Why?
Why did she have to be in control of everything? How did you contribute to that?
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
