I agree with Topgun. It's of course helpful to get advice and support from family, but be careful that their opinions dont send yours down a terminal dark hallway. It really does help you maintain PMA around WAW when you don't feel like you are "turning off" negative thoughts about her the moment she makes eye contact. Coming at her from a position of understanding (even if you are actually upset) helps you come across as genuinely open to and unpressuring towards her.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together