Accept that they just can. The sentiment may have been true at that time but not true now.

Would knowing the answer help you?

What are your goals?

Are you reading other threads here for encouragement or advice?

Search out and read Crimson's threads.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss