I was thinking about this anniversary card she gave me last year. It basically said: i have never loved you more than i do today. And i would do all of this all over again.

How can someone go from feeling that 1 year ago to behaving the way she behaving today? How much is it the OM, unhappiness, me, stress, etc?

I am just so confused still. Also, how can someone go from saying those things to not wanting to work on the marriage?


M(32), W(32)
T: 12yrs
M: 5yrs
D-Day: 7/12/14
ILYBNILWY: ~8/2/14
S: 8/20
Discovered OM: 8/20/