At this point I just don’t care anymore if it will be DBing or not.
I like this, and it's where I'm at too. We've been at this a long time. Best to just be true to ourselves and be ourselves. Do and say what we want. (for the most part, anyway) Anything else seems too fake.
What ever happens, is going to happen.
I truly feel contentment and confidence is very attractive, and will take us far.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
