Is she saying that you do not understand how to take care of her? Maybe she means you dont "get" her and OM does.

I say let OM take care of her, he will get tired of it real quick.

M42 W40
T17
M15
S13 S11
BD 7-14
A discovered 7-14
WAW moved out 10-3-14
D final 2-23-15