Fact is people do change, or they've put on a mask for reasons of their own and then that mask starts to slip or they just decide to take it off.

I'm certainly not the person I was at 21. Many things are the same but I've changed a lot, mostly for the better I like to think.

I think recognizing that he's changed in ways that aren't attractive to you is a positive.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss