She wants to be family and friends and a divorce.

[joli83]

My BF and I have talked a lot. He was my rock in the begining of this Sitch. He talked me down so many nights and was always there. Then I screwed up by sending him some pretty judgemental of her texts and he jumped to her defense showing me how I was being controlling if I thought that and that my expectations just were not in line. A lot of that was true but I respponded right back in a bad head space and we fought hard. He asked to not be in the middle anymore and not to talk about the relationship issues. Hard when he is right in the middle but he is going through a nasty divorce with his ex. At some point I need to be able to reopen dialogue wit hhim but I don't think now is a good time.