Here is a little background story. There were two major incidents that lead to our unfortunate separation. This is the first incident.
Around 3 months ago we had a formal wedding (we first married around 2 years ago at the court house). We both worked pretty hard for this event (she worked harder, off course). At the rehearsal night, my wife got offended by my sister-in-law (which was part of the wedding party) because she did not acknowledge my wife when she walked into the venue the night of the rehearsal. In other words, my wife got upset because my sister-in-law did not say “hi” to her when she came to the venue. This was later proven to be false.
They were having issues since the beginning of the year, but 5 days before the wedding, they "solved" their differences. At least that's what everybody thought, including me. My wife went and hugged my sister-in-law (SIL), and then my SIL said 3 times “I’m sorry for everything”.
Back to the rehearsal night, since I wanted to make my wife happy, I had to compromise by telling my brother that I prefer for his wife (sister-in-law) not to be part of the wedding party anymore. This caused a negative chain reaction, because now my brother (best man) did not showed up for the wedding, as well as my aunt and uncle. My aunt and uncle helped my SIL and wife to reconcile 5 days before the wedding. We still had the wedding with some bitter-sweet feelings in my heart. But we still had fun, and I made sure I was smiling in front of her so her day will not be ruined. I grew feelings of resentment after this incident. I asked my wife to please allow me to recover from all of this. It was like taking a bullet from her; I was hurting and needed time to recover. It had nothing to do with me hating her or a reason for me to end our marriage. I was feeling very sad for my brother, my SIL, my aunt, but especially, for my parents who were in town just for our wedding. My brother was always there for the preparation of the wedding, as well as being the person that was in charge of the venue the night of the rehearsal and our wedding. He also was the one who was supposed to provide the cake.
This is the end of the first story. More things happened, but I had to keep it simple. I will be posting the second one tonight. Thank you for reading.
