But for the sake of time and simplicity, I decided to make a new thread with a simplified version of the story. I have been reading Michelles DB book. Here is my situation.
My wife and I had been separated for over 3 months now. She has been set on divorce since the beginning of our separation. The reason is because, after a big argument that we both had, I failed to contain the argument between us and my family found out about the argument. Then I vented out to my parents, who were in town, about the incident. While my intentions were not to slander her name with my family, the fact that I vented out to my parents caused a chain reaction of disappointment and resentment against my wife. At the beginning of August, she moved out unexpectedly. I know she was going to move out, but she never told me when exactly. I deeply apologized to her by first acknowledging my faults and empathizing with her feelings. To this day she still express to me how disappointed, hurt, angry, and hateful she is against me, and I truly understand her feelings. Even our mutual friends have been involved. It is a true mess! She continues to lash at me pretty much every time we see each other, but I truly understand the way she is feeling and I don't argue with that. I truly love her and I am doing things that I believe will rebuild this severely damaged relationship. And by the way, I am not here to defend myself. So feel free to call me out. Any advice will be truly appreciated.
