A good positive for me in the last couple of weeks is that I realise that I have a good network of friends who are really helping me to keep busy on the nights I don't have the kids.
I'm starting to realise that the most inadequate thing about me is that my sense of inadequacy gets in the way of my happiness. Its the root behind all the problems in my marriage - I've never truly believed I was good enough for her
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress