Need Help before I blow a fuse.

[20&lost]

You are right I would go through all of this to have the children I have. They are wonderful ans I love them very much and when I see them everyday I thank God for bringing them into the world. Thank you for helping me see things differently.

I have a question. How do I handle situations when my W cuts me down or says means things to me when we are around the kids or freinds. Do I just ignore the comments so not to reinforce the negatives. I have been trying to defending myself when she does. I had a friend that I confided in call me to tell me that he has heard to comments from others saying how mean she is to me.