Even though Clark is home now, it's still very surreal. He continues to frustrate me, but that's my fault for letting those couple expectations creep in. Clark wants to move slow, but I feel like the speed is at a faster pace than I can handle. I haven't GALed in a while, and it's weighing on me. I don't feel like I've got MY space anymore.
Even just finding time to catch up on the boards is difficult ( I do have a lot of school projects due in the up coming week, which is sucking all my free time away!).
One positive, Clark actually is taking care of his pets. This only started last night, but hey, I'll take it
I do have a question. How do I start setting boundaries that never existed before, but really should have? I don't want him to feel like I'm pushing him away, but the trust is gone and I have to find ways to protect what we can salvage in our R. For example, Lord knows I hate social media, I would like to set a boundary on this. Full access because I feel this is where he is hiding R with OW. And it would go both ways...of course I have nothing to hide! I was looking this morning (I love to be tortured...lol) and noticed a list of about 20 women that I don't know. That's not ok. I'm his wife, I should at least know who these people are. I know all the men, why can't I know the women?
Any advice would be great!!
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
